Responsibility

I hear people say all the time, “But I am responsible for her/him….” 

Or they say, “I am not following my highest excitement because if I do, I will not be acting responsibly, and I am responsible for….”

No!

You are not responsible FOR anyone.  You are responsible TO them - as in you are responsible to them to be your authentic self. 

After all, if you are not your authentic self, they’re not in a relationship with you anyhow, are they?